Marriage Preparation Tools

wed-5.gif · 1) Give couples an outstanding "marriage prep packet".
· 2) Set out a table with additional resources.
· 3) Build a powerful Marriage Preparation Curriculum.
· 4) Create a library for couples, presenters, and mentors.
· 5) Provide resources for Hispanic couples as needed.


There is now an online marriage preparation service that works with local Marriage support personal and allows couples in unusual situations (such as one partner being overseas for the time being) to complete a full featured marriage preparation program.


Why Marriage Preparation Matters

The goal of Marriage Preparation is to bring about superb marriages, the kind of marriages where people say, "Aren’t they a wonderful couple!" and mean it. The realities of our culture make this extremely challenging. Nearly all of the couples who come to the Church for marriage are already sexually active with one another; nearly all of them are using contraceptives* to avoid pregnancy before marriage, and half to three quarters of them are already living together. By their lifestyle choices, they have already convinced themselves that the Church has nothing to tell them about male-female relationships or fertility management, and certainly nothing worthwhile to say about sexuality.

So why do they come? Plainly they are looking for something more than they can get from cohabitation. They know from observation of other couples (and possibly their own bitter experience) just how fragile sexual relationships outside of marriage can be. They want something better for themselves and hope that a gorgeous public ceremony or maybe some mysterious "blessing" from the Church can give them that extra something.

So what can the Church do for them? Well, Jesus gave us the best teaching on marriage and relationships ever delivered, and John Paul II has taken that teaching and packaged it so well that we now know more about what makes a marriage work (and what doesn’t) than ever before, and this knowledge is mostly available only through the Catholic Church.

Marriage is a fine-tuned, extremely powerful biological/psychological/spiritual package. Marriage moves couples to create the very best setting for bringing up resourceful, contributing members of society.
That setting is the human family with two highly involved parents. The family, however, revolves around the wholehearted sexual donation of each spouse to the other. Anything that attacks that relationship is highly destructive to marriage and the family. Pornography, for example, involves the husband with imaginary sexual images instead of his wife. Both partners are clearly aware of this disconnection, and sexual activity becomes divisive instead of unitive, with typically disastrous consequences. Birth control is even worse. Contracepted sex is the individual pursuit of physical/emotional gratification instead of a mutual pursuit of greater love and family involvement. This self-centered sex, unlike family-oriented sex, has devastating effects, for example, the huge increase in divorce that has come about as our culture has become saturated with birth control.

Marriage preparation programs can now clearly teach what factors, such as birth control, attack the marriage bond and what factors, such as accepting children, support and enhance it. We owe a great debt to John Paul II, because now we can tell couples not only what to do (and avoid) for a life-long, excellent relationship, but we can also tell them why these practices make such a remarkable difference. Effective marriage preparation, however, calls for a thorough re-education of the trainers as well as the trainees, since all of us are immersed in a culture where sexual values are highly distorted.

This is absolutely worth the effort. Healthy marriages lead to loving families. Loving families lead to functional, productive communities—a culture of life, a Civilization of Love. Anything we can do to foster this society will have an enormous payoff!

Four steps to take:



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A scientific detailed explanation why the use of hormonal contraceptives increases the risk of developing breast cancer.

Una explicación científica y detallada de por qué el uso de anticonceptivos hormonales aumenta el riesgo de desarrollar cáncer de seno

Cuatro médicos que no prescriben anticonceptivos  dan razones médicas para esta decisión.
If It's Not OK for Him to Take Steroids... Why Is It OK for Her?
CODE: PIIN
Si no es bueno para el tomar esteroides...Por que esta bien para ella?
CODE: PIINsp
Problemas asociados con el uso de hormonas para el control de la natalidad
CODE: PHPBsp
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"Cuando una pareja se da cuenta de que la anticoncepción es una mala opción, ¿Qué pueden hacer a continuación? Patty Schneier enfrentó esta crisis, y aquí comparte su sabiduría que ha ganado con mucho esfuerzo".

Sea testigo de la profunda conexión entre el misterio de María, la madre de Dios y la oposición de la Iglesia a la anticoncepción. La presencia corporal de María en el cielo nos habla a todos nosotros de la santidad de nuestros cuerpos, una santidad que tiene obligaciones.

Short leaflet (less than 300 words), very clear, totally common sense, supported by the latest research. Message: Condoms do not effectively protect against anything!
¿Qué hacemos ahora?
CODE: PWDWsp
Nuestra Senora, los Catolicos y la Anticoncepcion
CODE: POLCsp
Condom Sense
CODE: PCSP
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Traces the Bible's opposition to contraception from Genesis to Revelation with wonderful clarity.

A 'marriage card' that slips easily into wallets and reminds teenagers of their commitment to save sex until their wedding day

A 'marriage card' slips easily into wallets and reminds young women of their commitment to save sex until their wedding day.
The Bible vs Contraception
CODE: PBVC
"No Toads" Chastity Card
CODE: ZTOD
"Romance without Regrets" chastity commitment card
CODE: ZRPA
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This pamphlet speaks to teenagers who have been sexually active about their deepest desires for love and about starting over with secondary virginity.

This pamphlet appeals to teenagers from a Christian perspective and gives simple, positive, and compelling reasons for chastity.

Helps teenagers understand the need to choose virginity up until they are married
If Sex Feels So Good . . . . .
CODE: PISF
God said . . . .
CODE: PGSI
SEX . . . Is there more to it?
CODE: PSEX
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Un resumen corto excelente  del método Billings de Planificación Natural de la Familia

Artificial reproductive technology promises parenthood to infertile couples, but the experience of it can be very harsh.

Why is Contraception Immoral?
El Metodo Billings de la Ovulación
CODE: PBOMsp
Assisted Reproduction Technology and The Family
CODE: PART
Why is Contraception Immoral?
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Two Catholic priests talk about common reasons pastors don't teach about contraception from the pulpit and respond to each one.

In Humanae Vitae and Conscience Janet Smith applies her gifts of philosophy and analysis to the role of conscience.
Civilization of Love Tools
CODE: KCLT
Getting Beyond "I Can't"
CODE: PGBI
Humanae Vitae and Conscience (mp3)
CODE: CHVCm
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